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Chance Meetings

Listowel flowers against an old stone wall

Past Pupils

Connie Barry, Cáit McEllistrem, Caitríona Dillon and Julieanne Galvin in Lizzie’s in Listowel on August 2 2024

Friendships made in school often last a lifetime. It was lovely to meet up with these four lovely young ladies. I knew them first when they sat in front of me in their brown uniforms.

I wasn’t the only former teacher they met, for some friendships formed in the staffroom are enduring as well. Breda Ferris, Bridget O’Connor and Geraldine O’Connor and I were dining out too. Lizzie joined us for the photo. She is also a past pupil.

A Horsey Photo

If you love horses but can’t afford one and have nowhere to keep him, you can lease one. This is Róisín with her lovely Eclipse whom she has leased. Happy days!

Taking inspiration

Mick O’Callaghan read a piece on kindness in my book and then he encountered a lad and the meeting plus the reflection inspired him to write this.

Life

There is little joy in growing old, some maturing people say

As they get stressed with the ageing process, trying to cope

With health, death of partners, accommodation

And who will look after their daily needs as they age

Their household and personal requirements

Finances, health issues, nursing home facilities

Or maybe they want to keep their own independence

Will family members pop in and assist with household chores

Will they be able to cook and mind the house

With assistance from home help and meals on wheels

What family member has space in their home where they can live for a while

Will they be able to get respite care when they need it.

Decisions, decisions, mostly out of older peoples’ control

They are really difficult decisions to be decided

Which put a strain on family relations

This can result in arguments and bitter feuds

Which are sometimes nasty and deeply wounding

Often caused by some simple silly remark

Or misrepresentation of some retort

Which should be ignored by sensible  people involved

Sadly, this does not happen on a regular basis

Forgiveness is often forgotten about

I am sorry, I regret what I said or why can’t people say

Sorry I misunderstood what you said or did

Instead of prolonged shouting and arguments

Followed by legal advisers and costly court cases

These bitter family feuds can go on for years and years

Causing more stress, anxiety and tears

This is so sad when a family member dies

And some other members refuse to attend

Wakes, reposing, masses, funerals or cremation services

Tensions are unfortunately unnecessarily risen

There are stern stressed looking countenances

When feuding members meet socially or on the street

Scowling and frowning and attempting avoidance

Eyes down, looking in the other direction

With every facial and body muscle tensed and stressed out

When a simple hello how are you?

Or warm embrace or a hug or handshake

                                                      Could soothe and resolve the nastiest of rows.

In my life I have seen family members excluded from wills

Court cases ensuing, arguments, fights and injuries

Even death and murder most foul

Caused by not getting a few acres of land

A bit of financial endowment or house in a will

And mental and physical stress continues to the grave and beyond.

Mick O Callaghan. June 2024

I love the chorus line of Ken Dodds song  ‘Tears’ written in 1930 that goes ‘Let’s forgive and forget
Turn our tears of regret ,Once more to tears of happiness’

Or as the American journalist, author and world peace advocate Norman Cousins [1915-1990] said ‘Life is an adventure in forgiveness’.

’What a great country we would have If we could have more forgiveness and less tears and regrets.

A Fact

The last time Olympic medals were made of pure gold was in 1904. Nowadays the medals are silver with a gold finish.

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Lá sa Phortach

At The Greenway in Cahirdown

with a Listowel connection

Niamh (Kenny) Lordan and her husband, Ted, were each finalists in the best dressed competitions at Killarney Races.

A Day in The Bog

Remember this lovely bog picture

Well, the bog isn’t all fun and games.

Mick O’Callaghan remembers childhood days harvesting fuel for the winter;

My Memory of Days in the Bog.

The days in the bog were part of my life growing up in Kerry. When the year turned the corner of St Paddy’s Day turf appeared quite often in the lexicon of many a house. My father would take down the hay knife and sharpen it, likewise with the slean [slawn, turf cutting spade). When we heard the question ‘when is Good Friday this year’, we knew turf was in the air.

We rose early on Good Friday morning to clean the top rough sod off the turf bank to be ready for cutting on Easter Monday. We marked about a yard wide down the length of the raised turf bank and started the marking the surface sod with the hay knife and sliced if off with the wide spade. Then we ensured all drains were clear so that there would be no excess water around the turf bank on cutting day. This work had to be finished by noon because we had to attend the stations of the cross at three o clock in the afternoon.

Our bog was located in Gleann Scoithin, and we passed Queen Scotia’s grave on the way up.  Queen Scotia was reputed to have been a daughter of an Egyptian Pharaoh. She was Queen of the Celtic Milesians who defeated the Tuatha De Danann.  On top of the hill in Scotia’s Glen there lived a family of sheepmen. Tom told me stories about Queen Scotia and her sexual exploits around the valley. I never knew whether he was telling me the truth or not. I did take notice when he told me to “stick to the books garsún” and avoid the hard work of turf. When we passed their house in the morning on the way to the bog, Tom was out shaving. He used a white enamel pan with some hot water brought out from the saucepan on the range, a bit of glass stuck in the ditch served as a mirror. He made a good lather with some carbolic soap and shaved away quite happily, totally oblivious to the curious gaping of passers-by at this bare topped mountain man. He just continued with the greeting “Welcome to Glean Scóithín, Are ye right for pikes and sleans lads? Ye know where they are”. He continued shaving.

Easter Monday, which was cutting day, weather permitting, was fast approaching. There was always great preparation the night before. We had a cutter and another man for pitching the sods. We had to provide all the food. The big chunk of ham, two loaves of Barry’s white bread, the pound of Lee Strand Creamery butter, hard boiled eggs, a packet of Galtee cheese, some of my mother’s homemade currant bread and Marietta biscuits were packed as well as the loose tea, milk, mustard, a few knives and spoons and we were ready for our bog day. Our man on the slean was Micky Quirke and he would be in the bog around 6.45am to start the cutting and marking out the size of area needed to spread the turf out for drying. Con Sugrue took the sods and tossed them out to my father who piked them on to me for spreading in serried rows ready for footing and drying.

As the youngest of the team, I was the designated tea boy. My first job was to get sufficient cipíní and dryish turf to start a fire. Next the old, blackened kettle was produced, and I was despatched to go to the well for water. When the water was procured it was boiled on the fire and several spoons of tea were spooned into the kettle. It was always great strong tea. Then the cuisine a la Mick started. The pan loaf and butter were opened. Generous chunks of ham were piled up on well- buttered bread with a slice of cheese on top of that, topped off with a dollop of Coleman’s mustard. This was fine al fresco dining at its best. The boiled eggs were eaten from the hand. Then we had a few Marietta biscuits liberally coated with butter followed by a slice of my mother’s homemade currant bread, all washed down with bog water strong tasting tea. 

Being fully nourished and fortified it was back to the business of cutting turf while the garsún tidied up. I had to keep any tea left in the kettle and pour it into a couple of bottles with added milk. I carefully rolled up the paper corks and stuck  them into the bottles. There was nothing better than cold boggy tea, corked with the sloppy paper corks, for the four-o clock snack with the currant bread.

These  bottles were wrapped in socks for the evening, for what reason I will never know.

As the cutting progressed, we got deeper into the bog and the quality of the turf improved with each sod being as black as coal. This was the real deal as regards quality turf. It was much harder work, tossing it out from a lower position and every muscle was strained. We worked a full 10-hour day and at the end we exchanged pleasantries with the Browns and the Morans who were cutting adjoining banks of turf. We bid farewell to the bog and arrived home tired and weary. 

Now we had to wait and hope the weather kept fine till we lifted the turf for footing to let the wind blow through. This was a painstaking, back breaking exercise. You had to bend down to pick up every sod of turf and make the base tripod of sods and keep them standing. We were lucky most years with this laborious crop and got the reek made early enough in summer. All turf had to be home in the yard before Tralee Races and The Rose of Tralee annual festival  at the end of August. Bringing home the turf was a great occasion. We would get two big lorries of turf clamped up high by our driver. When it was home in the yard it was stacked away in sheds ready to keep the home fires burning for another winter. Neighbours came to inspect the turf and help with putting it into the shed. There was always a neighbourhood meitheal to help with jobs like this, a tremendous spirit of co-operation and genuine spirit of love thy neighbour.

There was many a joke and comment passed about the quality of the turf, but it was all good, humoured banter. The winter fuel was now secure for another winter.

A Staycation

Molly is happy out exploring Listowel. I haven’t shown her any of the photos of her forever family sunning themselves in the Algarve.

What the eye doesn’t see, the heart doesn’t grieve over.

A Definition

from The Devil’s Dictionary

by Ambrose Bierce

congratulation, n. the civility of envy

A Fact

There are more left handed people with IQs over 140 than right handed people.

At a Cost

Kerry Writers’ Museum in June 2024

Revival 2024

This will be a good one. The lineup looks special. Get buying those tickets.

Our Beautiful old Coins

These beautiful animals were once in everyone’s pockets. As we move ever closer to a cashless economy, let’s take a minute to see how beautiful these pre -decimal Irish coins were.

Another Find at the Library

You can borrow these “age friendly” tablets from the library for 10 weeks at a time. They are ideal for an old person who has to go into hospital or for respite or even in their own home.

Once you have a gmail account they are relatively easy to set up and they are programmed for local regions. They have a calendar and diary, links to the webpages of the local newspapers, links to local churches so you can “attend” mass if that’s your thing. You can take photos and chat to friends. I think they are a “try before you buy” option for someone who likes to stay in touch. On these Acorn age friendly tablets you can use Borrowbox, the free library online store of books , papers and magazines. When you hand it back, the library staff will wipe all your stuff off it before the next borrower.

What I’m Reading

I usually have a few books on the go at a time. This one won this year’s Writers’ Week Kerry Novel of the Year. It is very very good.

Piece of serendipity in the IWA charity shop this week…expect some great weird and wonderful facts from this source.

Squashed In

I just love the names of flowers and plants

Like the lovely Sauce Hollandaise daisies

Conjuring up images of summer salad days

Or that adorable Butternut Squash

With images of butter and nuts

Being squashed together

To make a tasty nourishing mash

I first became aware of this lovely vegetable

In the year of two thousand and ten.

I was just retired from teaching

And was embarking on a new way of living

Health matters were now a more pertinent issue

Weight loss and exercise became a focus for me

With aspirations to become a slimmer, fitter, healthier me

So, I betook myself off to a healthy heart course

With the emphasis on eating meat dishes demoted

                                            And using vegetarian dishes was promoted

For their beneficial effects for healthy living

We had carrots, lettuces, cous cous and coleslaw

There were melons, oranges apples and bananas

We tried shepherdess pies, Moroccan tagines

                                           There was tofu with ginger and broccoli spears

Then we were introduced to special soups and dishes

With butternut squash being the new one to me

We made butternut squash soup

We roasted it in the oven, skin and all

It tasted yummy and delicious 

Leaving my taste buds with a yearning for more

We made risottos and curries

I really liked eating them all

Because it was such nice nutritious food

Also, on our menu we had 

Quinoa with stir-fried greens

There was wheat grass and juices

Energy balls and sprouts

Diet plans and meal plans

I got used to living a more spartan lifestyle routine

Shedding kilos of weight and waistline inches

Reducing my cholesterol and blood pressure levels

 My energy levels increased appreciably

I just loved my expanded healthy menu choices

With my new friend, my delectable butternut squash

 heading the nutrient field for me

In my newly acquired style of healthy living routine

 Mick O Callaghan June 2024

A Fact

Octopuses have three hearts. (You know where I got this one.)

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Kathleen Cox, Ceramacist

In Glenlohane, Co. Cork in April 2024

Ceramacist with a Listowel Connection

This lovely figurine is the work of the late Kathleen Cox. She was featured on the National Treasures programme on RTE on Sunday April 28 2024.

Cox was born in China and lived there until she was 7. Her family moved to Listowel before eventually settling in Dublin.. Her father was a doctor.

Kathleen Cox studied under the master sculpture, Oliver Sheppard. She won many prizes and the prize money funded a sojourn in Paris.

“During her time there, Cox met a stranger who was threatening to commit suicide using his revolver. She intervened by throwing his gun into the River Seine. Although the artist saved the stranger’s life, he was furious that she got rid of his gun and insisted that she pay him the value of the gun, which she did in small installments. This outrageous episode demonstrates Cox’s empathy, kindness and gentle nature, which also reflected in many of her artworks.” ( RTE website)

This piece, entitled Woman carrying Something, is typical of the pieces she created at her Dublin studio and sold in her shop. It is now in the National Museum.

In the 1930s she became disillusioned with the whole art scene and smashed her moulds and closed her studio and shop. She passed away in 1972.

Another Hen

Another poet with Tralee roots was prompted by the story of poet performer, John Foley, to send us his own poem about poultry.

Michael O’Callaghan now lives in Wexford.

Rhodie The Escapee

It was Saturday evening in Charlotte Close

With the weather so chilly it would give you a dose

I was strolling out for my evening walk.

When I heard what I thought was fowl talk

A clucking Rhode Island Red Hen was cheerily strutting.

Proud as punch to be hen hopping

Up along the path while her feathers she was preening.

She progressed along with her little hen steps.

But now it was darkening so Rhodie got a pep in her step.

As she searched for a spot to coop up for the night

The owner was made aware of Rhodies plight.

But Rhodie was safely tucked up out of sight.

We called off the search till Sunday morning light.

I was out walking on my morning nature quest.

Parading with Stella my weekend French bulldog canine guest

She was straining on her lead with all her might

As a Clucking Rhode Island Red hen came into her sights.

The Rhode Island, the wild one which escaped from her pen.

Was parading down Charlotte well after ten.

It was time once again to phone the distressed owner.

Who came round quite quickly to rescue her Rhodie, the loner

But Rhodie was not receptive to her rescuing gestures                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Choosing instead to play hide and seek with her pesters

And so, word was sent out to our Charlotte neighbours

Seeking help in arresting our avian transgressor .

Who is really performing like an avian messer

We begin a chick chick chick chick chick chick tune

Being voiced in 6-part harmony just around noon

And then from within the hedge a faint avian sound was heard.

Poor Rhodie was trapped in a fork in the hedge.

All rescuers now go down on their knees

And peer through the hedge and are ready to weep.

A neighbour now sees a gap in the hedge 

Where she sees our poor Rhodie out on a ledge

She puts in both hands to grasp our poor hen

And has her rescued in less than ten. 

She reintroduces her to freedom in Charlotte Close

And hands her over to Rosie her owner who lives near The Close.

Mick O Callaghan

11/02/2024

Do You Remember?

(From the internet)

A Fact

The Empire State Building in New York opened in 1931

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Baby, it’s cold outside

River Feale in January 2024 photo by Mary Dowling

Old Photo Shared on Facebook

Phil Lynott and fans in Tralee in 1980.

For the Weather we have had

from Mick O’Callaghan in Gorey

The pale moon was rising.

I walk out the front door

Of our home in Gorey

Its freezing cold outside 

I look around 

I gaze left and right

I view the spider’s web like tree

At the edge of the garden

It is a most majestic sight

I admire its skeletal appearance

In all its bareness

And undressed beauty

With its beautiful pattern

Of interwoven

Branches and twigs

I take out my camera

To capture its arboreal elegance.

In my photo shot

The rising moon is visible 

In the clear evening sky above

Through the delicate

Web like branches

Its orbital shape

Clearly visible

The street lights

Appear as orange globes

In the background.

I save these images

In my photo memory bank

For future reference

On a bitter cold January evening

In Gorey, County Wexford

Native mute swan

Neil Brosnan has been in touch…

Hi Mary, I believe the swan in Mary Dowling’s photo to be a native Mute swan rather than a migrant Whooper. See pic attached.

Mary’s swan

A Polar Plunge

Prompted by my photo of my grandchildren sea dipping in December, Sue in the U.S. sent us this.

This is Lake Michigan with fewer waves. Photographer Laurel Covert captured a Lee Street Beach polar plunge.

Postbox on Upper Church Street

This mailbox is pre 1984 because An Post, the Irish postal administration, came into being in 1984 when, under the terms of the Postal & Telecommunications Services Act of 1983, the Post Office services of the Department of Posts and Telegraphs (P&T) were divided between An Post and Telecom Éireann, the telecommunications operator now called Eir.

A Fact

This is a fact verified from my own experience.

The best way to find something you have lost is to buy a replacement.

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